Growth is a process of experimentation, a series of trials, errors, and occasional victories. The failed experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiments that work.
Human growth is a process of experimentation, trial and erros, ultimately leading to wisdom. Each time you choose to trust yourself and take action you can never quite be certain how the situation will turn out. Sometimes you are victorious, and sometimes you become disillusioned. The failed experiments, however, are no less valuable than the experiments that ultimately prove successful; in fact, you usually learn more from your percieved “failures” than you do from your percieved “successes”.
Most people feel great disappointment and anger when their plans in which they’ve invested a great deal of energy, time and money fall through. The first reaction for most of us is to feel that we have failed. While it is easy enough to jump to this depressing conclusion, it will impede your ability to progress with your life lessons.
Rather than viewing your own mistakes as failures and other’s mistakes as slights, you can view them as opportunities to learn. As Emerson said,” Every calamity is a spur and a valuable hint.” Every situation in which you do not live up to your own expeactations is an opportunity to learn something important about your own thoughts and behaviours. Every situation in which you feel “wronged” by another person is a chance to learn something about your reactions. Whether it is your own wrongdoing or some else’s, a mistake is simply an opportunity to evolve further along your spiritual path.
When you consider the hardships of life — the disappointments, hurts, losses, illnesses, all the tragedies you may suffer – and shift your perception to see them as opportunities for learning and growth, you become empowered. You can take charge of your life and rise to its challenges, instead of feeling defeated, victimized, or cast adrift.
Cherie Carter-Scott If Life is a Game, These are the Rules P.35-36
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